
Q: How long, Lord?
A: As long as necessary.
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God is in control of the length of our trials and the depth of our trials. Trials last as long as our loving, sovereign, Savior deems necessary. Trials are as hard as required for His purpose.
Remember and Consider and Pray
Remember God loves you, is making you more in the image of His Son, will glorify you, and will take you home to heaven.
Remember that God has a holy purpose in this trial. His purpose is to sanctify you.
Consider that God is using your trial not only for His work in you, but that also He uses your trial in the lives of others.
God has told you the purpose of your trial. Your trial will:
- Perfect, confirm, strengthen and establish you (1 Peter 5:10),
- Produce endurance so that you may be perfect and complete (James 1:3-4),
- Bring about perseverance, proven character, hope (Romans 5:3-4)
Pray for His wisdom in how you should live during this period.
Pray for His strength.
Remember He has given you everything you need for life and godliness. Pray to appropriate His gifts. (2 Peter 1:3)
Pray for understanding. He might tell you specifics of what He is doing to purify you, which could help in your reaction and growth.
Thank Him that He loves you so much He is making you more godly.
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Father, thank You that You are our loving God, working in our lives to make us more like Your beloved Son. Thank You that You are always with us, growing us and helping us walk in a manner worthy of Your great love. Help us praise You during the trials You bring and help us respond in ways that please You.
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“How long?” has been on my mind for some time. See a post from 2015: How Long, Lord?

For me, to live is _____. Fill in the blank!
When I was younger, I might have said alpine skiing, or racquetball, or aviation. But, of course, other priorities were mixed in. Public school, college, graduate school. Husband. Family. Career.
But this is a crucial question, especially for believers. What do I say now? What do you say now?
The apostle Paul said: “For to me, to live is Christ….” (Philippians 1:21)
Challenges!
I started this year with this: “This year, I want to focus on better understanding our holy God. And strive to be more holy myself (gasp).” (See Holy, Holy, Holy)
Now, and as part of that, I want to be able to say: “For me, to live is Christ.” (Another gasp.)
Whatever you do
We are to seek first the kingdom of God. (Matthew 6:33)
We are to make ourselves holy and living sacrifices. (Romans 12:1)
Whatever we do, we are to do it for the glory of God. (1 Corinthians 10:31)
God gave us earthly, temporal commandments
He knows we need food and shelter. He commanded we honor our parents. We are to love our neighbors as ourselves. We are to demonstrate we are Christians by our love for one another. (and more….)
It is possible to ski or play racquetball or fly, or be married or single or widowed in ways that glorify God. I’m sure Paul glorified God with his tent making. Paul was interested in athletics. I’m sure he glorified God when he went to an athletic event.
It’s possible to glorify God as you do your taxes!
For me, to live is Christ
Father, help me make this true.

This post stemmed from horror. (You can pick specifics.)
Evil is wicked, dreadful, revolting, is … What’s more, people are proud of their evil deeds, and people are proud of others’ evil deeds.
And yet we shouldn’t be surprised. The Bible tells us evil will increase. And it is. And it is going to get worse.
BUT!
But God!
There is a righteous Judge who sees everything. A righteous Judge who knows motives as well as thoughts, words, and deeds. A righteous Judge who will act when the time is right.
Almighty God will deal with evil and with wicked people. He will separate the righteous from the unrighteous. He will take the righteous to heaven, and the unrighteous will die in their sins.
Right Now
Right now, He is being patient, not wanting any to perish.
Right now, He has a purpose for those who believe in Christ.
Right now, believers have a charge to fulfill in this wicked world.
Believers’ charge
Right now, we are to love the Lord our God with all our hearts, souls, minds, and strength. We are to love our neighbors as ourselves.
We are to prove we are Christ’s disciples by loving one another.
We are to fulfill Jesus’ great commission.
Time is short
For those reading this post who haven’t yet repented and believed in Christ Jesus to save you from your sins: The time is short. Please be honest with yourself. You have sinned against your Creator. You have to repent and turn to Christ. If you do, God will save you. If you don’t, you will die in your sins.
See Praise the Judge.

You* are beloved of God.
(You* here refers to believers who have put their trust in Jesus Christ, who have received Christ as Lord and Savior.)
You* who are the called, beloved in God the Father, and kept for Jesus Christ. (Jude 1)
You* are beloved children. (Ephesians 5:1)
You* have been chosen of God, holy and beloved. (Colossians 3:12)
You* are brethren beloved by God. (1 Thessalonians 1:4)
Beloved
Beloved: loved dearly; dearly beloved; esteemed; cherished. “Beloved” is a deep, unconditional love, made by God’s choice (not the loved one’s behavior).
Unfathomable Blessing
God’s love for believers in Christ is beyond comprehension. Almighty God, creator of the universe, chose to love us, and chose to adopt us as His children. The love of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit is with us every moment of every day. God protects us, guides us, sanctifies us. His love for us will never fail.
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Father, please let us come to know, really know, Your love for us. Help us rejoice in Your love. Help us trust You and Your love every moment.

The man believed the word that Jesus spoke to him and started off. (John 4:50)
And kept going:
As he was now going down … (John 4:51)
Believe and Do
As we live our lives, the Lord tells us to do something.
Our responsibility is to believe what Jesus said, and start doing what He said.
We have to get started.
And then we have to keep going.
We Don’t Always Start or Keep Going
I certainly can see areas where I don’t start, or delay a start, or fail to keep going.
Here are common examples:
Not starting a daily Bible study or quitting after a short while. There are lots of stories about making a commitment to read the entire Bible in a year and quitting at Leviticus!
Or knowing the Lord wants you change your diet or exercise program and …. Well, you may know that one.
Or …
Reportedly, 80% of New Year’s Resolutions fail by February.
BUT! God started and keeps going
The great news, though, about the Christian life is that God does not give up!
For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus. (Philippians 1:6)
Is there something the Lord has told you (me) to do? Start today. And keep going.
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Father, thank You that You never give up on us, never giving up on me. Forgive me for knowing what You want me to do, but failing to start or failing to keep at it. I’m determined to get going and keep going. Thank You that You are with me and for me.

You* are special.
Yep, you*.
You*: This is for believers in Christ, those who have received Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior.
You* were chosen by God the Father. (Ephesians 1:4)
You* were justified (declared righteous). (Romans 8:30)
You* were redeemed (saved from the penalty of sin). (Ephesians 1:7)
You* have been adopted by the Father as His child. (Ephesians 1:5)
You* have received the Holy Spirit. (Ephesians 1:13)
You* are greatly loved by Almighty God. (1 John 3:1)
You* can go, with confidence, to God’s throne of grace. (Hebrews 4:16)
Your* prayers are heard. (1 Peter 3:12)
You* are being sanctified, being made into the image of Christ. (Romans 8:29)
Through God’s providence, His absolute sovereignty, everything that happens to you* is used to make you more godly, more like Christ. (Romans 8:28)
God is for you*. (Romans 8:31)
Christ will never leave nor forsake you*. (Hebrews 13:5)
You* have obtained an inheritance; you* are a co-heir with Christ. (Ephesians 1:11, Romans 8:17)
You* will be glorified. (Romans 8:30)
You* will spend eternity in heaven. (John 3:36)
Are you* special? Yes! Special indeed.
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You*: You* here refers to believers who have received Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. If this isn’t you, PLEASE repent of your sins, and turn to Jesus Christ in belief and trust.
PS: And there is more, of course!

Emotions: Good and Bad
God gave us emotions as part of being human.
Our emotions can help us understand our hearts, comprehend our situation, and lead us to words and actions that please God.
At the same time, our emotions have been corrupted by sin. Our emotions can yank us around, trap us in dark spots, lead to faulty thinking, and result in sin.
Our life-long challenge is to corral our emotions by the word of God, bringing our emotions more and more in line with the truth, God’s truth. The task is to sanctify our emotions.
Emotions arise from thinking, so our minds must be renewed.
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind … (Romans 12:2)
Do not be afraid (feeling), He has risen (fact). (Matthew 28:5-6)
Take courage, it is I (fact); do not be afraid (feeling). (Matthew 14:27)
Do not be afraid any longer (feeling), only believe. (Mark 5:36, Luke 8:50)
My soul is bowed down (feeling). But this I call to mind and therefore I have hope (perspective). (Lamentations 3:20-24)
There are two major activities to sanctify our emotions:
First, deliberately learn the Bible and obey what God says. The key to controlling our emotions is to fill our minds with God’s truth. Feed the mind and the emotions will follow.
Second, systematically observe and question your emotions, and challenge the emotions that do not align with God’s word.
The Psalms are a good instructor. Here the Psalmist identifies his emotions, asks why, and moves to the reality of God.
Why are you in despair, O my soul? And why have you become disturbed within me? Hope in God, for I shall again praise Him for the help of His presence. (Psalm 42:5)
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Father, help us learn and obey Your word. We know that You made us and that Your way is best. Help us bring our emotions into conformance with Your truth. We want to please You.

We are commanded to rejoice. Commanded.
But how? How can we rejoice in troubled times, in suffering, in loss?
Joy is a Perspective
The key for me is realizing that joy is a perspective, not an emotion.
Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials… (James 1:2)
… we also exult in our tribulations, knowing that tribulation brings about perseverance… (Romans 5:3)
“Consider” and “knowing” are perspective words, not emotional ones.
When we are in trials or tribulations, if we focus on our emotions, we won’t be able to rejoice at how our faithful, loving sovereign God is at work. We must shift our focus to God.
God-Centered Focus
We need to focus on the reality of our holy God at work in us and in the world. We must believe and trust in Him.
Work on remembering who He is and His promises to believers; the reality of what He is currently doing.
Repeat what you remember, what the Lord has shown you.
Tell the Lord what He taught you.
And do this during your trials and tribulations, all through your days, whether pleasant or not.
And rejoice!
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Father, help us center our view of the world and our circumstances on You. Please give us an eternal perspective. Help us believe all that You say. Help us trust You fully, regardless of our situation, knowing that You are working your holy plan, and that You will make all things right. Help us rejoice in You.

When you are in an especially beautiful or loving time, or when you know you have pleased God, or when you see a spectacular view of earth or the universe, you may have had a momentary chill.
Or you may get a chill when you see evil, sensing God’s wrath.
Soul Shivers
I’m speculating, but might these mysterious chills be glimpses of our incomprehensible, awesome God? Might they be soul shivers?
God is Transcendent
God—Father, Son, Holy Spirit—has life in Himself. He is eternal, from everlasting to everlasting. (e.g. John 5:26)
God is totally different than we are, His created humans. He stands above and apart from His creation. He is beyond time, beyond space. He is separate from us, unique, perfect, unchanging. He is infinite, not bound by limitation. ALL things are possible for Him.
Seeing the Indescribable
In Scripture, the reaction of those seeing the glory of God often has been to fall face down as dead or be overwhelmed with one’s own sinfulness.
Then I [Isaiah] said, “Woe is me, for I am ruined! Because I am a man of unclean lips, And I live among a people of unclean lips; For my eyes have seen the King, the Lord of hosts.” (Isaiah 6:5)
Now I, Daniel, alone saw the vision, while the men who were with me did not see the vision; nevertheless, a great dread fell on them, and they ran away to hide themselves. So I was left alone and saw this great vision; yet no strength was left in me, for my natural color turned to a deathly pallor, and I retained no strength. But I heard the sound of his words; and as soon as I heard the sound of his words, I fell into a deep sleep on my face, with my face to the ground. (Daniel 10:7–9)
When I [John] saw Him, I fell at His feet like a dead man. (Revelation 1:17)
Try to Glimpse His Awesome Holiness
Every living thing in the universe will die—except God who has unending life. You yourself, all humans, all animals, birds, fish, plants, stars. Eternal God remains.
Think about something you find incomprehensible, while still knowing that nothing is impossible with God. For example, not only does He know all 8+ billion living humans, every hair on their heads, but He knows them all the way back to Adam and Eve. And He knows their futures.
In His providence, He fits together innumerable actions to achieve His holy plan. We see that over and over in Scripture. And, for believers, He is working all things together for good. Contemplate what is required to make that possible. (God!)
Meditate on God’s otherness.
God’s Revelation of Himself
Yet, God has chosen to reveal Himself to us! Stay tuned…..
Worship our Holy God!
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Father, help us appreciate Your Holy, infinite, perfection. Help us keep You in mind through our days, living in a way that pleases You.

The first Sunday in 2025.
Brethren, … one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 3:13–14)
What do we need to forget about 2024 (and earlier)? What do we need to do to press on?
Forget
Clean out the past: don’t be stuck on the good or bad. Be ready to press on.
Don’t rest on laurels. Don’t rest on accomplishments. Don’t coast on a past success. Past victories are great, but don’t let them reduce your motivation to press on.
Forget the sins we have confessed and learned from. Don’t be stuck in the past.
If we are weighed down with a particular sin or failure in 2024 (or earlier), even though we have confessed it to our Lord and received His forgiveness, we MUST forget and press on. Sometimes people talk about not being able to forgive themselves. This may really mean that they are stuck in the past. Get over it. Don’t lose what you’ve learned, but move on.
Paul had a lot to forget: “I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has strengthened me, because He considered me faithful, putting me into service, even though I was formerly a blasphemer and a persecutor and a violent aggressor. Yet I was shown mercy because I acted ignorantly in unbelief.” (1 Timothy 1:12–13)
Forgive those who have sinned against you. If you don’t forgive, the offense will stay in your mind, slowing you down. Don’t be stuck in the past.
Press on
It is a new day. It is a new year. Press on, working on your sanctification, working towards becoming in the image of Christ. Sanctification is partly God and partly our responsibility. Work on your part! (Philippians 2:12)
More to come!
Happy New Year!
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